There are difficult places in relationships, right? We can all get stuck in thick places where the air even feels dense. It’s time to learn a special energy technique called Pulling Taffy to help yourself and your relationships. It’ll take all of about 3 minutes of practice and you can use it forever. What fun!
Before we get to people we love, let’s practice on a place that gives you the heebie-jeebies. You know the kind…the intersection where you had that car accident, or the house on your street that makes you feel queasy, or any other physical location that comes to mind.
Imagine that physical place is filled with thick rope. Top to bottom. Filled, stuffed and crammed full. Now pretend the rope is made of taffy. Pull at its ends and middles and begin to elongate and shred it over and over again. Stay with it until you feel the thick ropes are more taffy-like and fun. Simple, right? Good. Do that for a whole 30 seconds or so and immediately notice how you feel NOW about the physical location. So simple to change things around.
Guess what? We’re going to do exactly the same thing with a loved one with a tweak or two. So…pick a loved one who you are NOT communicating well with. Remember this process is 100% internal; that means nothing external happens. It’s all in your mind–that’s the good news.
Note the type of crappy communication you’ve been having with them. Now imagine their whole body filled with rope and we’re going to apply Pulling Taffy with them. In your mind convert the rope to taffy. Give it a fun taffy-like color. Pull it. Stretch it. Shred it. Double it up and pull it again and again and again. Once more. Keep it up for 30 or 60 seconds and then immediately notice how your feelings have shifted. That’s the blessing of feelings. They can shift quickly. Let them. Allow it.
You may be done, or not. You may have to do this daily for a while or it may all be cleared up in the first session. If you feel the “thickness” set in again it’s a clear signal that Forgiveness Taffy Swirl is needed. What? Play with me. We’re going to swirl in a different color and energy into the imagined taffy. It will have the energy of forgiveness–don’t stress over this–you won’t know what that ACTUALLY is. Just pretend; it works just as well. So swirl in the forgiveness and pull it for some time longer. Done.
Forgiveness can be MAGICAL and TRANSFORMATIONAL if you don’t get stuck on it or its deep meaning. Keep is simple like taffy and you’ll do just fine. If you need more specific help with forgiveness work you can get directions on my site. Keep it uncomplicated and playful and you’ll do just fine.
By the way you can use this on EVERY relationship (living or deceased) across species; it’s quite amazing. Enjoy.
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